Warning: Negativity and Triggers Ahead
The cake isn’t for you. I just thought it was funny. Yes, that is what I said: Triggers.
Or if you prefer horses.

Now let’s get going on the main feature.

NaNoWiMoNoNoNoNoNoNo Bah Humbug (that includes fan fiction, fantasy drenched quests, magical children in black robes, and super heroes.)
Random thoughts on all kinds of stuff.
If you spend the night at my house, like Scrooge, you will also have three visitors during the night. That would be Alice the German Shepard as the ghost of writing past, Oscar the tuxedo cat as the ghost of writing present, and Gloria the calico cat as the ghost of everything else. If you like I will follow up with chains and howling, though I’d rather not.
First off – my hat goes off and I take a bow to everyone who attempting to write a novel during NaNoWiMo (National Novel Writing Month.) Keep writing. I am cheering you on.
However…
As I look around social media at the November writing frenzy, numbers pressure, and general drama I’m finding some disturbing trends.
Large numbers of beginning writers want to be somebody else. This makes my fangs hurt, both as a writer, and as a parent.
These beginners, bless their hearts, are obsessed with Harry Potter, what Hogwarts house everybody belongs to, superheroes, superhero powers, fantasy stories with names nobody can pronounce much less keep track of, sparkling Vampires, and absolute good vs absolute evil. They are also obsessed with movies – not books. This includes LOTR, Slasher movies, and The Never Ending Story.

This is all lovely, but write your own story. Use your own voice. Tell your own story. Steer clear of the absolutes and the childhood loves and move on. In other words GROW UP.
OK maybe you don’t want to grow up. It’s your story.
My regular readers know of my distain for fan fiction – that is writing a story based on somebody else’s story.
Sure one of the worst books ever – Fifty Shades of Grey the 2011 erotic romance novel by British author E. L. James, was fan fiction inspired by the Twilight series. I guess if you can make that much money off of writing horrible pornographic prose based on a YA novel and make millions of dollars then go for it.
My favorite fan fiction story is quite different. My daughter had a classmate in hight school who wrote slightly PG-13 rated 60 page homoerotic fan fiction based on historian David McCullough’s book 1776.
Most A lot of fan fiction seems to have an erotic element to it. I shutter to think how much erotica has been written about Mr. Weasley and Samwise Gamgee. They’re both great characters but sometimes I just wish people would leave them alone.
On the other hand adding Zombies to anything, especially Jane Austin is always fun.
I can’t imagine adding zombies to Withering Heights. It is already close to a horror story as a dark hopeless gothic romance can get. Or adding zombies to Jane Eyre… well we know Jane would kick their rotted heads right off of their fragile putrified necks. Not sure if that would be before or after the crazy wife burns the house down.
Other books that could use Zombies are Little Women, The Bible, War and Peace, The Bridges of Madison County, Eat Pray Love, The Notebook, Gone Girl, and Tom Sawyer.
And speaking of things that will never die…
Oh joy another version of Little Women is coming to the big screen. I say that with little joy. Nobody at my house is overly fond of that story. We just don’t like it. We don’t like the book. We don’t like the movies. We especially don’t like Marmee who needs to kick her deadbeat husband’s ass. A lot of ass needs to be kicked in that story.
Greta Gerwig is from Sacramento and we love her here. I do not love Meg, Jo, Beth, or Amy. Little Women definitely needs Zombies and maybe even some Werewolves. I’d love to see Laurie as a Vampire.
There are times when I feel like I’m the only adult in the room, or the only adult on the world of Internet writing groups (there are exceptions but those are rare.) But it isn’t just the Internet. Let’s get serious here.
As a parent, as a mom, as a parenting blogger, and as a concerned adult, I have a few options for those stuck in their YA wormhole.
I have a game called RATHER THAN. Let’s give it a go.
Rather than watch
The Neverending Story (1984)
See
Tangerine (1984)
Rather than watch
Little Women (1933, 1949, 1994, 2018, 2019)
See
The Big Sleep (1946)
Rather than watch
Any Superhero movies that involves capes and lots of explosions
See
Saving Private Ryan (1998)
Rather than watch
Twilight (2008)
See
Pulp Fiction (1994)
I’m not trying to put anyone down (even if I sort of am doing that.) When I first started my blog there were all sorts of asshats that told me what Vampires can and can’t do. I told them I do whatever the hell I want to do. No dark Vampire lords are going to tell me or my kids what to do. So I get it. I get it when you’re passionate about something and somebody like me comes along and puts you down. If you want to think I’m an asshole go ahead, but please consider growing up a little and finding your own story. Looking at the real world will help with your fantasy world – write something readers can relate to.
And speaking of random thoughts…
Robert Clotworthy (The Curse of Oak Island) and Mike Rowe (Deadliest Catch) should switch programs for a few episodes. Think about it. Damn that would be fun.
Don’t get me wrong. I love jumping into another reality. I love what cosplay people do. They’re amazing. I love events like The Dicken’s Fair, and Scottish Fairs, and Steampunk events. I LOVE Halloween. I love fantasy and science fiction and weird stuff and urban fantasy. For goodness sakes, I’m a Vampire. But even I have to live in the real world sometimes and deal with real issues.
And what about me?
Juliette Kings writes the blog Vampiremaman.com.
She is currently working on a novel and it is November. She is also working on an illustrated version of Jane Eyre, trying to come up with more short stories, and continuing to landscape her yard. She is also still a mom and a Vampire. Want to know more? Read my blog.
~ Juliette aka Vampire Maman

I’m sooooo with you on most of the things in the post. (And I say ‘most’, because, of course, I don’t know how it is to be a vampire and a parent.)
Hugs to you and your family.
How’s your brother?
Hugs. Glad that the village people didn’t come after me with fire and pitchforks on this one.
My brother? Which one? Max is still Max – fighting demons and making women swoon. Andy is attempting to keep out of trouble but he is just a nut magnet. Val is being is usual hipster self and keeping cool. Aaron is still overly serious, but I can always get him to smile.
I’m talking about Aaron. I met him last time somewhat 75 years ago on Aiden Shreeveport’s 300th deathday anniversary party. We even danced back then. Ask him about that evening and tell him I wore a yellow dress. I’m almost convinced he’ll remember. If he doesn’t, I’ll never speak of that night again. *smirk*
Oh I hope not considering he was married. Hmmmmmm. Sometimes you just don’t want to know.
LOL – No, it had nothing to do with THAT… don’t worry. It had to do with a bet and something really, really funny… Let me know if he told you… *grin*
I don’t really agree, but I do sympathize! Write on!
At least once a year I have to be obnoxious and voice my unpopular grouchy old vampire opinions. Thanks for dropping by. We shall both write on!
I understand. I have my grouch soap box too!
So you’re saying I should move on from the steamy fan fiction I’m writing based on Sesame Street? I was just finishing up the scene where Elmo gets strapped naked to the tickling machine…
You’re a category all your own. More satire then fan fiction.