Experience: Parenting, Teens and New Vampires

As smart as the teens in your life are, as worldly as they may seem, they are still inexperienced children. Sure they look like adults. Sure in some places in history and in the world today they’d be considered adults, but they aren’t.

One earns the right to be an adult with experience and that moment the lightbulb goes off when you suddenly realize out that money is earned, relationships need to be nurtured, and it never gets easy. That doesn’t mean that it never gets fun. That doesn’t mean that all happiness gets sucked out of your life. It just means that you have to wake up and pay for your own coffee. Yes, and remember to smell the roses without anyone reminding you to do it.

As the poster child for missed opportunities, cluelessness, bad decisions and what-could-have-been, I can say all this. Yes, I learned from my mistakes. It doesn’t mean I still don’t make mistakes. Oh, and I forgot everybody’s favorite what-could-have-been. But yes, like I just said, I learned from my mistakes so I can see what young people go through and try to guide my children, or at least encourage them not to let fear, anger, despair, misplaced romance or plain stupidity fog their judgment.

Anyway…

I’ve found that when someone turns into a Vampire, it is almost like being a teenager again. Everything changes – both physically and mentally. They change in ways they could have never imagined, no matter what they thought they knew.

My young friend Cody was a happy and successful Silicone Valley executive when he woke up one morning with a craving for human blood and fangs. Four years after the fact Cody has adapted quite well and embraced his Vampire self, but there are still frustrations. The learning curve is still there, even thought Cody firmly believes he knows everything. Yes, does that remind you of any seventeen year olds you might know?

Just as you need to give your teens a break and spend time talking with them, and listening, you need to do the same with your new Vampire friends.

Yes, they’re going to do stupid things like over indulge on blood or sleep for a week. They’re going to offend older Vampires. They’re going to make a lot of mistakes, but they’ll learn. So give them a break and let them know if they’re making fools of themselves. It is our job to protect them and teach them. After all, we will be spending a long long long time in their company.

That is all for today. Just a thought. And don’t forget to give a hug to your favorite Vampire today. And don’t forget to tell your kids that you love them – always.

~ Juliette aka Vampire Maman

 

10 thoughts on “Experience: Parenting, Teens and New Vampires

  1. “And don’t forget to give a hug to your favorite Vampire today.” Aww…! We should make that an official holiday: “Hug Your Favorite Vampire Day.” Any suggestions as to the date? Okay, I’m up waaaaay past my curfew and going to ground now…

  2. My 16-yo daughter takes her driver’s license test tomorrow! Plus we are leaving immediately after for a 4-day trip to the Oregon Coast, leaving her behind, with or without the keys to her new “used” car depending on the results. What faith we have, lol! I have yet to meet a vampire, but I think i am prepared for it. 😉

    • WOW. My almost 16-year-old just got her permit. Good luck with your trip and the new driver. You’re a brave soul.

      If you meet any Vampires just tell them you know Juliette. Or just cook for them. They’ll love your stuff.

      Have a good trip! Always nice to have you visit here.

      • Thanks Juliette! I’ll be sure to mention a good meal in the making if I do to save my blood, It’s the fairly rare B negative (hey do vampires care about blood type?) and the Red Cross is always bugging me to donate it. I got my 2 gallon pin this year though!

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